Family Dilemma

Have you ever watched a TV drama?

At the end of the day, we all know that the chief killed his daughters in this area. R.I.P Three Sisters

At first, I always ridicule tv dramas especially Malay dramas. However, as I get older I realized that my family is not that perfect at all! For example, in dramas, you would find that gossips between neighbors are ridiculous and the main character would be affected by these gossips. The gossips are so ridiculous that audiences would find that it is just stupid. I rather not divulge my family problems here but I can say that they are similar to those dramas, if not, more ridiculous. 

It is hard to balance between feelings and logical approach to a family problem. I believe it is because you know your family members too well. 

So you an answer in the plain sight. That is just the first step, executing it is another whole story. Especially when you have seniority culture and egoists in the family. It is challenging.

To my brothers and sisters, I pray for our happiness. I hope that this is the fight we need for the growth of our family. No more to being fake, no more one-communication. We need to have a better communication openness. We cannot have authoritarian rules to behave.

Have faith in our family and be patient.

I am sorry if you got hurt in the process.

yasashii